Due to the silly Chinese ancient nonuniform method of calculating the day...Our Chinese believe must calculate the day of the wedding, so that the both parents and those people who attend the wedding ceremonial mustn't clash with the couple zodiac...
Different "master" they have their own way of calculating these date...so when my mother go ask the Ipoh "master" calculate the specific date...and my mother in law go counter check with the "master" in Sungai Petani...giving different result...so because of this stupid ancient nonuniform way of calculating I have to reschedule my wedding day...either forward it or postpone it to a date that both party agree with...
How silly is that? Giving me headache these few days thinking of it...
两个相爱的人，结合到一起，为了爱，为了更好的生活，彼此
相爱，相互理解，永远走下去，不管生活的烦恼和快乐，厮守到老。
好日子就要选好日子，大凡订婚、嫁娶、起基、上梁、约会、开张、
开市和搬家等都需要择黄道吉日。
结婚举行婚姻仪式是夫妻双方一生中最值得庆祝的大事，
要考虑到所择日子是否与双方家长的生辰八字相冲。
如果决定将注册与结婚仪式的日期分开，最好这两天都是择日行事。
如要取舍的话，便应以进行迎亲及摆酒的传统礼仪当日为准，
选在吉日举行，因为中国传统始终视这天为真正婚嫁日。
良辰吉时计算的方法是用男、女双方的出生日期时间推算出最吉利的婚嫁时日，
这个「吉日」必然是一个有「贵人」出现的日子，五行上适宜办喜事、
不能与男方的财星及女方的官星相冲。
总体的原则是：日子要比月份重要，月份要比年份重要：
首先根据设想的婚礼形式和当地的气候特点选定结婚的季节。
例如，若是想办室外婚礼，则要选在晴朗少雨、冷热适宜的季节。
同时，还需要考虑亲友参加婚礼的难易程度。
如果有很多想邀请的亲友都不在本地工作，则应该选择在十一、五一等长假。
其次，还要考虑新人双方的工作和学习情况，
尽量避免在考试前或者项目攻关阶段筹办婚礼，造成分心。
最后，也不能忽视长辈们的意见！综合以上因素，选定大致的范围之后，
就可以根据两人的生日情况选日子。
最后提醒一点，女方在择日的时候尽量要错过经期。
有那么难吗？
2 comments:
hmm... it's complicated a bit... ask sifu to pick a date... then let both party agree with it... stick to the date and start to plan....
Honestly I think these 'masters' are making it all up.
If I were you, I REALLY ask why he think that day is so suitable for the wedding. And if it rains, can you get a huge discount?
Nobody can predict weather that good.
(I know, I know, he did not predict the weather. But he would be very rich if he can do so)
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